My Declaration

13 May
Hey beautiful people! I hope that you are all well.
It’s been an interesting season for me. A season which compelled me to really stand on God’s word, take hold of my joy and remain hopeful for the future despite the challenges of the present. I did this by writing up a declaration which I use to start off my week/day.
I’m sharing it with you all after extra nudging from my fiance (thanks Evangelist P) and because I believe that someone will find it encouraging and a great tool to get you going in prayer for the week/day. Let us change the atmosphere with our words. Speak life, choose joy, choose victory and remember His sufficient Grace…EVERYDAY!
I also encourage you to write up your own declaration! Make it personal to you and your situation.

Thou shalt also decree a thing, and it shall be established unto thee – Job 22:28

God bless you all! Have a read of my declaration below:

Thank you Lord for this day.
Thank you for the breath of life in me.
You have sustained and blessed me with another day to give You praise.
I exalt and praise Your Holy Name. You esteem Your Word higher than Your Name, therefore I stand on Your Word that still holds the Earth today.
I stand on Your Word that gives my words power to change lives, situations and circumstances.
You have given me the power to decree a thing and see that thing established. Therefore, I decree these things by the power given to me through Your Son, Jesus.
This day will be glorious.
Your faithfulness, love and favour will go before me. Your goodness and mercy will pursue me.
I will be full of joy today. Your presence Lord, will be felt throughout this day.
You have made me an overcomer, a champion, more than a conqueror, strong, resourceful and exceptional.
I will not be defeated, for You are my Defender.
I will not be overwhelmed, for You are my Peace.
I will not be confused, for You are my Clarity.
I will not be down, for You are the lifter of my head.
Thank You Lord for giving me Your wisdom, knowledge and understanding. I receive and walk in them today.
Order my steps Lord and guide me with Your eye. Let my feet not walk into the traps of the evil one, but lead me into Your Presence, My Safety.
I decree that a sound mind is my portion. I have the mind of Christ. Cast out the spirit of fear and remind me of Your unfailing love today.
Send me destiny helpers and encouragers. Make me useful in all that I do today and in it all, take all the glory Lord.
I speak these things into the atmosphere of this day and seal them with The Blood of Your Son that saved me, that rose again that I may rise and overcame sin that I may overcome. Thank You for Your all sufficient Grace.
In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

– Kanayo Dike-Oduah

The Pursuit #Relationship101

25 Apr
This is the number one relationship rule.
Pursue God, not your (future) Partner. Worship God and not your (future) relationship.
The gap between our love for God and our partners should be massive.
Be hidden in Christ. So to find you, they gotta find Christ first! So to pursue you, they gotta pursue Christ first!
Hidden with Christ in God is where your purposes will meet. #WhenPurposeMeetsPurpose
If you can’t see the video, then watch it here! Or read my brief analogy below:
Triangle analogy: God is at the centre and the peak, and as both individuals pursue God, they naturally come together! God needs to be at the centre and peak of every relationship. He is the #RelationshipGoal! Your pursuit of God will cause your relationship to blossom. Put Him FIRST! – Kanayo 


Listen to Jaye Thomas – Pursuit of You! Perfect song!

Christian Relationships Misconceptions | Kika

9 Apr
Check out the video below by my big sister Kika! (Founder of Pure Hearts)!
Such a great conversation and topic which I have no doubt will be a blessing to many.
For more on relationships, check out my blog post Relationships First or When Purpose Meets Purpose!

Catch Up Link For Our Radio Feature On Before I Do |

31 Mar
Hey Family!
We had such a great time on Hephzibah Radio, thank you for all the love and support. We were so overwhelmed during the show and even got word from Soji that there were listener around the World, so much that the the radio listener capacity had to be expanded during the show. Thank you for tuning in and coming hard with your questions. Hopefully there will be a part two. Bless you guys!
For those who missed it, you can catch up with the show! Likewise for those who just want to relive the moment.

Follow our journey on!
We are trusting God to provide for all that concerns our future and we may not know ‘how’ but our hearts are at peace knowing that He knows the end from the beginning. We encourage you to trust Him too!
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Challenges and Separation | Transparency and Encouragement From Kanayo

26 Mar

Separation is the word for today.

Watch the video below as I share in total transparency about what I’ve been going through in this season.

Your purpose, assignment, mission, mandate, cause, choices will SEPARATE you from some folk.

God doesn’t separate you to leave you on your ones. He separates to:

A) join you with Him.

B) join you with divine destiny helpers.

Embrace the separation period. Don’t force certain relationships, whether with family or friends.

God will use His word, sharper than any two-edged sword to separate you from everything that is not of Him. Everything that was not initiated by Him must come to an abrupt end. Everything that was initiated by Him will prosper.

Be separate to be distinct. Be separate and cleave onto God!

Testimony Behind The Photos

9 Mar
My fiance and I recently had our engagement shoot done and guess what. God’s favour was all over it as always.
We did not pay one kobo, penny, cent, nada.
Alakija Studios is a renowned photography company, they shoot for the elites all over the world, so why and how did we, young, recently engaged, with hazardly low bank accounts get to shoot with Alakija for free? I’ll tell you why…Favour.
Alakija were coming to London from New York to run a workshop for photographers and said they were looking for a couple for the attendees to practice. Initially, they were only looking for one and when I messaged Jide (big boss of Alakija) who I have on facebook, he said that they’d already got a couple. So I was like, ah well, ’twas worth a try. We still have our lovely gift from sister Tolu which is another photoshoot experience and we’ll get a photo printed, so all hope isn’t lost ayy.
I left it. And then three days before the workshop. Jide messaged me to say that they need more couples and asked if we were available. Of course we were available, calendar got cleared real quick lool. God blessed us, with one of the best photography sessions and the pictures came out beautifully, if I do say so myself.
Children of God. We are favoured. When things don’t work out the way that you’d expect, just trust that God has a better plan. God hears the sighs of your heart, continue to trust Him for the best, even when it seems illogical.
Have a look at some of the pictures below and help us to thank God for His favour :)

(Enlarge each picture by clicking on it)

Major shout out to Alakija Studios – Jide and his wife Dele (she did my make up)! Also thank you to the other photographers, Jeffrey (, Ronke ( and Nims, who will be sending us their shots soon.

9 Mar

My fiancé and I are super excited to release our pre-wedding blog! Check it out here:



We want to invite you to be a part of our journey, as we head towards sealing our union in God’s eyes, through marriage.
We will use this blog to encourage our fellow brothers and sisters on their personal journeys. In addition, we will use this blog to encourage those pursuing Christ-centred relationships by being transparent about our struggles and testimonies, both individually and as a couple.
We pray that this blog along with fellowships, meetings and more, will serve as a great foundation for the ministry that God has placed in our hearts. Which is Purpose!
The simple mission God gave us is; ‘I want a generation that love Me’ (Psalm 24:1-6).
  • Women that love God…Women of Purpose!
  • Men that love God…Men of Purpose!
  • Couples that love God…When Purpose Meets Purpose.



He Sees The Tears That No One Sees

20 Feb
God sees.He sees the tears that no one sees.
He sees the battles we fight behind our smiles.He honours our selfless obedience to encourage others when we ourselves are in desperate need of encouragement.He sees it all.

I want to encourage you to find hope and comfort in the Almighty God who knows the end from the beginning. The one who allows us to pass through trials, knowing that it will strengthen us when we rest in His strength. He begins when we end.

As I write this I weep not only for my trial but for those like me who sometimes feel like though they pour out to the masses, no one is there to understand or bear their burdens. Those who feel like they are constantly carrying their problems and also the problems of others.

But realise that we have the liberty of casting all our burdens on Jesus and that is a choice. Holding onto your burdens will not change the fact that Jesus already died for them. His blood was shed so that we might live and live abundantly. Not simply to be abundant in the physical with material things, but abundant in our spirits, in ALL seasons.

Abundant Joy is your portion in the midst of your trial.

Abundant Peace is your portion in the midst of the storm.

Abundant Hope is your portion when things look hopeless.

Abundant Faith is your portion when you want to give up.

Abundant Love is your portion when you experience hate.

downloadSometimes you just have to encourage yourself, other times you need to smash down the wall of pride and actually ask others to pray for you.

So here I am asking you to pray for me and if you need to reach out to someone now to pray for you, then do it!

Transparency is your weapon.

It’s through my transparency that I can encourage you. Your transparency will encourage others and lead them to their breakthrough.

It’s through my transparency that I can expose and shatter the plans of the enemy with prayer. Your transparency silences the enemy, He has no hold over what has been exposed in prayer.

My message ahead of the weekend is:

  • Take comfort in the fact that God sees everything, He is omnipresent.
  • Cast all your burdens…withholding nothing! His blood paid for it all.
  • Encourage yourself, but also get others to pray for you.
  • Transparency is your weapon.

I love you all! God bless and keep you!

Still have so much to share on this, but I’ll save it for the next newsletter! 

— Kanayo Dike-Oduah
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UPC 2015


Verse To Meditate On This Week

Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken.

– Psalm 55: 22


Upcoming Events in February and March

5 Feb

Hey friends! Get your diaries out, here are a few upcoming events!





Events Are In Chronological Order

SOUL SAKESoul sake 2

DATE: 07/02/2015

TIME: 5:30-8PM


Three simple words “HAVE YOUR WAY” can change your life forever.
We need to surrender ALL to God and allow Him HAVE HIS WAY in our lives.


eventsingleSINGLE LADIES

DATE: 07/02/2015



Are you in a relationship, courting, engaged or even divorced? Well this is not the event to miss! Come and receieve something special from amazing women from all different walks of life. Ladies it’s time to work on ourselves, our callings and our purposes!

Register here



DATE: 14/02/2015

TIME: 12-4PM

Calling all singles! Whether you are waiting or courting come and join us on Saturday 14th February, 12pm-4pm.
eventThis promises to be our best event yet as we bring you another Singles’ Seminar.

The seminar will feature teaching, counselling sessions, a chat show with a twist and our popular Q&A session with Rev Dr David Antwi. Come and learn how to build good foundations for courting and for your future marriage!

Not to be missed ! FREE admission. Refreshments provided.


DATE: 22/02/2015

TIME: 3-6:30PM

LOCATION: Hilton London Tower Bridge

The conference is free however spaces are limited. CAPACITY EXTENDED on a first come first serve basis.

Register now to secure your place!

Strengthening relationships with separate workshops for married couples, courting and singles, networking and joint sessions for all.

UPC 2015 


A branch of Bright Serenity set to empower University Students and Prospective University Students across the UK!
Attention all university Christian union/society/fellowship leaders and members. UPC are planning our Semester 2 tour!

We’ve been to:
✔️Cardiff (South Wales)

Will your university be next?


Let your CU and Campus fellowship leaders know!

Email us at or me at

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The Daily War Over Your Joy

25 Jan

Hello! I pray that you are well. It’s been a while, do forgive my quietness. You might be able to relate to the pressure of exam season. As I pass through this season, I’m praying for all of you in the same boat. Have a read of the short prayer on my blog concerning exams: ‘Loving you with prayer this exam season’. 

There is a war..and you need to be on the winning side.

This war is over your joy!

So many things will come at you to take your focus away from God and steal your joy.

People will be people and do hurtful things. Life will be life and hurl tough situations at you.

You may feel misunderstood, ignored and unloved. You may feel down, to the point where you struggle to pray or worship God.

But in spite of your feelings you have to choose joy in all things. Joy is not a feeling, it is the evidence of God’s spirit working in you! (Galatians 5:22-24). Choose your focus.

Whatever you focus on, is what you will head towards. Whatever you focus on, consumes your thoughts and determines your behaviour.

Therefore, choose to focus on God in spite of what may be going on in your peripheral and regardless of how you feel!

After Job’s first trial (Job Chapter 1), the first thing He did in response to all the terrible things that happened to Him, was WORSHIP!

 Job stood up and tore his robe in grief. Then he shaved his head and fell to the ground to worship. – Job 1:20
The enemy gets confused when we choose Joy. The enemy is baffled when we choose to worship in the battle. The enemy loses the war based on your CHOICE.
So instead of all the ‘die by fire’ or ‘God consume all my enemies’ radical prayers that we may hear. Why not worship? Your praise to God is the best weapon! Your praise to God ensures that you are on the winning side of this daily war over your joy.I encourage you, as I encourage myself. What will you choose?
— Kanayo Dike-Oduah
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Upcoming events!

Women’s conference this Saturday! London Waterloo!
More information here!

Verses To Meditate On This Week

Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing.

– James 1:2-4

Psalm A Night!

What a way to prepare for bed.If you want to join the Psalms bedtime read just be ready with your bible every evening! I post up the Psalm on my twitter!


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