Psychology of Gaslighting: How to Respond in Faith – Devotional

โ€˜Gaslightingโ€™ is a complex, nuanced term that many have experienced or perpetuated. If you have ever been made to question the validity of your faith, your perception of reality, your lived experiences and feelings; you may have been a victim of gaslighting. In a grace-resistant world full of post-truths, we must learn how to deal with gaslighting by returning to the Truth of Godโ€™s Word.

โ€˜Anxious yet efficientโ€™ โ€“ Making sense of my high-functioning anxiety.

Psalm 94:17-19 17 Unless the Lord had been my help,My soul would soon have settled in silence.18 If I say, โ€œMy foot slips,โ€Your mercy, O Lord, will hold me up.19 In the multitude of my anxieties within me,Your comforts delight my soul. As soon as I drove through my school gates, I felt my stomach do a backflip, my heart started racing … Continue reading โ€˜Anxious yet efficientโ€™ โ€“ Making sense of my high-functioning anxiety.

Psychology and โ€˜Black Lives Matterโ€™

Your brain does not have a race. We all have the capacity to feel pain. Psychology can point to viable solutions. Read more in the post on โ€˜Psychology and Black Lives Matterโ€™.

Psychology Meets Scripture on the topic of โ€˜worryโ€™ #MentalHealthAwarenessWeek

Worry is a chain of thoughts and images, negatively laden and relatively uncontrollable; it represents an attempt to engage in mental problem-solving on an issue whose outcome is uncertain but contains the possibility of one or more negative outcomes to the point of debilitating the โ€˜worrierโ€™ in a state of anxiety.Definition of Worry adapted from … Continue reading Psychology Meets Scripture on the topic of โ€˜worryโ€™ #MentalHealthAwarenessWeek

Day 3 – Psychology of Forgiveness

Hearing โ€˜Iโ€™m sorryโ€™, โ€˜I messed upโ€™, โ€˜I feel terrible for what I didโ€™ is like music to our ears. It feels good when someone acknowledges their wrongdoing towards you and oftentimes it makes it much easier to forgive them, right? But what if they never apologise. The reality is that some people will never apologise for their wrongdoing towards you, and waiting on them to apologise before you forgive will cost you your mental freedom. This is why we must LEARN TO FORGIVE, EVEN WITHOUT AN APOLOGY.

Day 2 – Psychology of Forgiveness

The psychology of memory can explain why โ€˜forgiving and forgettingโ€™ is rarely the case! Our memories are so powerful and a single experience can become entrenched in our long-term memory to the point that it becomes a cue for future expectations.

Day 1 – Psychology of Forgiveness

Remembering an event, a situation, or a person can evoke a shiver of excitement, the heat of anger, or the anguish of grief. Although emotion that is activated by a memory may not be felt as intensely as the actual experience, the recall can be enjoyable or painful nonetheless. Thankfully, the command is to forgive and not necessarily to forget, because letโ€™s face it โ€” it is virtually impossible to forget certain experiences whether good or bad.

Psychology of Forgiveness – Devotional

This devotional is where โ€˜psychology meets scriptureโ€™ on the topic of forgiveness. Oftentimes, we passively forgive an offender, with a simple โ€˜I forgive youโ€™, however, the challenge comes when you are reminded of their offence every time you see them. Or when you find it hard to get rid of that negative memory. Sometimes these recurring memories and feelings make you question whether you have really forgiven them or not.