Ladies…ROAR! Reject Satisfaction

This post is for lionesses only! I had a phenomenal time on the panel at Coffee & Prayer last weekend. Following a few snaps on mine and others' instastory there was a huge request for a collation of some of the things that I shared. So the video is below! Hopefully more will be shared … Continue reading Ladies…ROAR! Reject Satisfaction

There’s Value in the Appreciation of our Mind (Guest Post)

No matter who you are, or where you come from, you will have a unique way of thinking and processing thought. I don’t have all the answers as to how that works, or how much God intended to give each of us unique ways of viewing life, but in my experience, it has been influential … Continue reading There’s Value in the Appreciation of our Mind (Guest Post)

Grace yourself

We use and hear the phrase ‘brace yourself’ which is said to have evolved from the verb form of ‘brace’: “To make (a structure) stronger or firmer with wood, iron, or other forms of support". ‘Brace’ then evolved to "brace yourself" which translates to doing something physically to keep yourself from falling over or being … Continue reading Grace yourself

Faith and Technology

Technology is a tool and like any tool it can be used for good or for bad. A knife can be used for cooking, a hammer or axe for building, but both can be used for harm. The tool has no morals or values, it is the user that brings their morals and values to the use of that tool. This is the same with technology. The psychologist in me makes me understand another aspect of the use of technology as a tool. Anything that we use creates or exerts a degree of change in us, whether we realise it or not. For example, when you constantly use a pen or knife, after a while you may see an impression on your hands and fingers. Similarly, our use of technology creates impression marks on our minds which primes us for future activities, decisions, habits, expectations and relationships.

‘God said…but it didn’t work out’

'God said...but it didn't work out, so was it really God or were you hearing things because God is not a liar...' I have heard many versions of the above phrase spewed inconsiderately and in a 'what are you saying now?' way to Christians, who perhaps shared that God instructed them to do something. That … Continue reading ‘God said…but it didn’t work out’

Hearts may break but they also heal

I'll share my journey of heart break, healing and the lessons learned. This will probably be one of my most poignant posts, but it has been a long time coming. After sharing my story and the tough lessons learned with other men and women, who were so encouraged, I was reminded that it is time. So … Continue reading Hearts may break but they also heal

Sometimes God says NO!

God's 'no' is better than man's 'yes'. Look back and glorify God for the things He saved you from. Look back and think about how pre-mature desires could have led you in the ditch. Look back and appreciate God's discipline, an expression of HIS love for you as His son/daughter. Look back and appreciate His … Continue reading Sometimes God says NO!

Prayer Is Not A Theatrical Production 

Matthew 6:5-15 (The Message) And when you come before God, don't turn that into a theatrical production either. All these people making a regular show out of their prayers, hoping for stardom! Do you think God sits in a box seat? "Here's what I want you to do: Find a quiet, secluded place so you … Continue reading Prayer Is Not A Theatrical Production 

Challenges and Separation | Transparency and Encouragement From Kanayo

Separation is the word for today. Watch the video below as I share in total transparency about what I've been going through in this season. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLmD0jYBqRA Your purpose, assignment, mission, mandate, cause, choices will SEPARATE you from some folk. God doesn't separate you to leave you on your ones. He separates to: A) join you … Continue reading Challenges and Separation | Transparency and Encouragement From Kanayo