Mature Friendships

In a generation where face to face communication is almost second place to social media, Whatsapp, iMessage etc. I must stress the next sentence. Mature friendships are void of assumptions and full of intentional communication. 'Assumed telepathy is the silent killer of friendship! No one really knows what another person is thinking'. Ask don't assume. Let any person with the ability to talk — ASK. Let anyone with the ability to talk — TELL! Don't assume that your friends know what you are going through if you haven't told them. Don't assume that you know what your friend is going through if you haven't asked.

Upcoming Christian Events | August – September 2017

Summer is here and there are incredible Christian events lined up for August and early September. See their respective details below, in chronological order - I hope to see some of you there. Disclaimer - promotion on my blog is free and is not a direct endorsement of the ministrations from specific ministers at these … Continue reading Upcoming Christian Events | August – September 2017

Dealing with gossip from the root | ‘He said, She said’

Gossip; Casual or unconstrained conversation or reports about other people, typically involving details which are not confirmed as true. Have you ever been accused of gossip? Ever had your words taken out of context and spread as gossip? Have you ever accused someone of gossiping or of saying something that didn't sit right with you? … Continue reading Dealing with gossip from the root | ‘He said, She said’

Construction Workers

So I came across this quote/image/screenshot of a common rhetoric among men and and women on social media. It read: 'do you love him enough to wait until he becomes who he's supposed to be?'. I have a small but serious problem with messages like this. It almost minimises the responsibility of men to get … Continue reading Construction Workers

Hearts may break but they also heal

I'll share my journey of heart break, healing and the lessons learned. This will probably be one of my most poignant posts, but it has been a long time coming. After sharing my story and the tough lessons learned with other men and women, who were so encouraged, I was reminded that it is time. So … Continue reading Hearts may break but they also heal

Upcoming Events in February and March

Hey friends! Get your diaries out, here are a few upcoming events! March February! Events Are In Chronological Order SOUL SAKE DATE: 07/02/2015 TIME: 5:30-8PM LOCATION: CROYDON Three simple words "HAVE YOUR WAY" can change your life forever. We need to surrender ALL to God and allow Him HAVE HIS WAY in our lives.   … Continue reading Upcoming Events in February and March

#LoveMeWithPrayer

If you love me...pray for me. Prayer is a great act of love because it places another’s needs above our own.  Prayer goes beyond the physical as it recognises that there are spiritual needs that can only be met through prayer.Praying for others actually sows a seed in someone else's life and your prayer for others can … Continue reading #LoveMeWithPrayer

When Purpose Meets Purpose

On Sunday I posted up picture on Instagram. The caption read: ‘When purpose meets purpose’. So many people were diggin’ the caption, probably more than the photo lol. But that’s great, because it means that they might have caught onto the deeper meaning behind my caption. I’d like to expand on it just a little bit … Continue reading When Purpose Meets Purpose

Kay’s Reading List

Salve Lectores (Hi Readers)! After a high demand for my reading list, it is finally here! Click on the picture of the books to access the link to their respective amazon page. The genres of these books range from Romance, Christianity, History, African (especially Nigerian) Novels.  The books I put on here are ones that … Continue reading Kay’s Reading List